Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.~Anaïs Nin

Welcome to another Blogging Ensemble! Today I have Designer/Publisher/Producer: Mark Murphy, and Fashion Designer: Minkie sharing their thoughts on the subject of Confidence. Check out what these two talented and successful individuals have to say about a quality every one of us can relate to. This post is a bit longer than usual but I guarantee it will be worth the read!What is confidence?For me confidence is vital in just about every facet of my life, and has been important to my survival, my creative growth as far back as I can remember.Sustaining my confidence is like a workout, and part of my daily spiritual practice. It starts in the morning with meditation, and it ends before I go to sleep with meditation. Even while sleeping my intention is to keep connected to this divine recharger, because the daytime is a nonstop test of my ability to remain clear sighted and fearless. Whether I am making art, selling myself or my ideas, writing this Blog, juggling deadlines, putting out fires ("Honey, the washing machine just flooded the kitchen with water!"), working on my relationship, it takes confidence to support my confidence!In the context of our creativity we are looking at facing fear and risk. Preparation and courage working together can push out the boundaries of our limitations. You have heard that success is preparation meeting opportunity, but when a boldness meets opportunity synergestic qualities can appear creating Confidence Karma.

When I was working on my journalistic project with boxer Mike Tyson for Sports Illustrated in the late 80's I was always amazed at the power that emanated from him beyond the physical bulk of his honed body. He spoke about confronting his fear before a fight, "Before I get into the ring he's bigger than me and faster. But once I'm in the ring, I'm so confident, it's ridiculous. I can almost predict which round I am going to knock him out in!" This is exactly what happened over and over for Mike making him a champion until he lost his focus, desire and discipline.My buddy Matt Mahurin stands out when it comes to pure ambition and fortitude. One of Matt's stories from his Imagemakers Handbook called, "Expect The Unexpected" showcases the type of daring and determination that exemplifies Confidence Karma...

As a kid I recall Popeye saying, "I am what I am!" I took those words and changed them into my own little mantra of empowerment which is still with me to this day- "Am I more than I am?" By living in this question I expand the possibilities of what I can accomplish, and with some divine guidance maintain the confidence to see them through.What is confidence for you?Peace and prosperity,GregU2 video directed by Matt MahurinFists by Greg Spalenka

Matt Mahurin

It was 1979 and the assignment given by the teacher in my Art Center College of Design illustration class was to create a black and white drawing of a mysterious meeting using two point perspective. All the students accomplished the assignment with varying degrees of success using images such as lovers meeting in a spooky park, people lurking behind doors, or shadowy figures jumping out from around a corner. Every solution used two point perspective correctly, except one. This image showed one point perspective of two blind men walking straight toward each other. The punch line for this piece was the focus on their walking canes tapping mid-stride. The teacher criticized the piece harshly because, "Where was the perspective!?" I knew this art was the best in the class by far, with two point perspective or not. The power in this image was its conceptual perspective which made a unique, intriguing story, and invited the viewer to think!

MYSTERIOUS MEETING-MAHURIN

This was the first moment I met Matt Mahurin. I recognized a rebel, a genius, a heartfelt and kindred soul who embodied the art spirit completely. We became fast friends and I am truly blessed to say that even though we live on opposite coasts (he lives in New York) we are still the best of buddies. I learned much from Matt over the years, and still do! He is an accomplished award winning illustrator, photographer, music video director, and film maker. His most recent film, FEEL can be seen on the Sundance Channel. Check out his awesome work here- http://www.mattmahurin.com/I just returned from an evening in Santa Monica with Matt reminiscing over our careers and the new artful visions that harken to us now. It reminded me how friendships and alliances sustain us in our personal and professional lives. When the going gets rough, friends can ease that journey. They can also challenge us and give a wake up call when we are slacking off as well as offer honest criticism. Mostly, friends and team players remain steadfast allies to our dream potential pumping up the support and inspiration.Whether working in film or music with other highly respected artists I found it always engendered greater creativity. Matt and I have not had an opportunity to work on a project together yet, but I surmise when it happens something really special will come of it. In the meantime Matt and I have been on a similar wavelength concerning artist empowerment. We have taken stock of our careers and all that has gone into making them and are giving back to the world some hard won knowledge. I encourage all of you to check out Matt's grand opus to the art spirit: The Imagemaker's HandbookIt will answer many questions you may have about pursuing your dreams as an artist.Peace and Empowerment,Greg